The transition to a bed from the cot has (touch wood) been a smooth one and I am much preferring the comfort of laying on the bed next to him to read the copious amounts of bedtime stories as opposed to sitting on the floor!
As I mentioned in the posts about his birthday he is quite the 'Car' and 'Toy Story' fan and I've run with a definite 'Cars' theme in his room but his New Buzz Lightyear, Woody, his old Woody (yep we have 2) and Jessie the Cowgirl have their spots in the top corner of the bed every night.
I don't really have any massive pearls of wisdom for the transition just the basics:
1)Make sure you have a railing so they don't fall out
2)A mattress protector!
3)Continually boost their esteem on what 'Big Boy/Girl' they have become.
4)They aren't babies anymore....don't stress as much (it's mummy nature to stress a little) about temperature and conditions. Ask them! .. "You comfy?" If it's cold I say things like "you all toasty warm? you pull the blankets to how you like them."..... and lately it's been hot so each night I say "I don't want you to get hot and sweaty, how does just the sheet feel and we put the quilt down the end."....One night despite this and I was quite hot myself he still insisted on pulling up and adjusting his quilt..... He's got to sleep in that bed, how he likes it is his choice and once again I think giving asking the questions and empowering with choice rather than just fussing to what you think will be right is just another step to assisting with the development of their personal preference and common sense.
As I leave Huddo's room of a night I say to him "Please stay in your bed, go to sleep and have great dreams matey. I'm just out here if you need me we will have a great day doing ______ tomorrow!"
I mentioned in last week's 'motivation' post that I have been Spring Cleaning with this upgrade of Huddo's room came a massive routine cleanout and organise the 'grown out of' clothes' into spacebags.
Oh and to give you an insight into how big puzzles have become I've attached pics for a bit of a laugh. I swear I see puzzle pieces in my dreams now! I don't let him have all of them in reach at once. Every Friday I rotate 3-4 different ones. Otherwise there can be completed puzzles like stepping stones all over the floor.
assembling this bed was a job I'm glad I didn't have to do!! God bless being engaged to an engineer!
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